Tough Decisions

First, the good tough decision. I bought my airfare to Thailand! No turning back now, we're going! The price was the best I had seen and the times were really good. No 36 hour travel times for us! It will take us 19 hours to get there and 15 to get back. What's amusing is that we leave Bangkok at 520pm and arrive in Seattle at 525pm the same day. If only it was really a 5 minute flight. Pulling the trigger was difficult though. What if prices went down? Are we spending too much? Are we really ready to commit 100%?

Buying airfare is always nerve-wracking. You never know if you're getting a good deal or overpaying. Dropping a thousand dollars on one thing isn't something most people (of my acquaintance) do very often, especially with no ability to get a refund. Aside from my house payment, it's the largest amount of money I spend on anything. Plus, once you buy your ticket, you're committing yourself to spending a lot more money once you get there.

On the flip side though, I may have to make the decision to nix Bulgaria. I don't want to! I'm still holding out hope that I can make it work. But just over 8 weeks out from when we're supposed to leave and I don't have a commitment from my travel partner. She can't get an answer from her work and while she waits, airfare climbs.

Originally we were supposed to fly through Iceland to Munich before spending the majority of our time in Bulgaria, but the price of the Iceland Air flights has sky-rocketed. In May, I was looking at $1099. Now, skipping Iceland, I'm at $1322. With a 30 hour return travel time. I'm not sure if I can justify it now. I know I wouldn't regret going, but I also am not sure I can deal with myself when my credit card statement drives me to a nervous breakdown.

Having to turn down something you're so passionate about is hard. I've been looking forward to this all year. I've planned out what I want to see, asked for the time off from work, and set money aside. But at some point, I have to be an adult. I really hate those points. Fingers crossed I won't get to that point!

One Night In Bangkok

Actually, four. And several nights in other places, too! Last night, my friend and I spent several hours planning our trip to Thailand and Cambodia. It's going to be amazing! But we definitely had some things to sort out. Did we want to go to Chiang Mai? Is the expense of getting to Angkor Wat worth it? How many days can we spend lying on the beaches of Ko Phi Phi?

We knew we didn't want to spend every night in a different city. Both of us have done the backpacking through Europe in college thing and while it was great, we're getting a bit old for that now. Also, not having to rush around to get somewhere else allows for more time to get to know the city. So we limited the cities we'll visit to just the most important:

Bangkok - This is one great big "Duh". We have to fly in here. It's the capitol city. It's the hub of cultural and tourist attractions. It's close to many other tourist activities. Of course we are going to spend time here. We decided we want two full days to see the sites of Bangkok, plus two more days to visit the floating markets of Samut Songkhram and the city of Ayutthaya. But, in order to not miss our flight home, we figured it would be best to split our time here into two days at the beginning and two days at the end. Plus, then we can leave stuff behind and not carry it with us the entire trip!

Siem Reap, Cambodia - Angkor Wat is a massive temple complex near the town of Siem Reap. It's a UNESCO World Heritage Site and included on the previously mentioned list as the number 2 destination of top landmarks in the world (and the Bayon Temple, also at this complex, is number 5!). It  is a huge attraction to me. I want to go here almost more than anywhere else on this trip. But it's expensive to fly to. We could take a 12 hour bus for around $10, but losing two days to travel is not really worth it. Flying from Bangkok to Siem Reap and then on to Chiang Mai is nearly $500. That's almost half the cost of the flight to Thailand from Seattle! But when else would we get the chance to go? My friend was rather reluctant to spend the money, but after telling her about the $1 bike rentals to ride around the ruins, the ability to see them both at sunrise and sunset, and showing her lots and lots of pictures, she was convinced. We're definitely going here.

Chiang Mai - I was on the fence about this place. It's far out in Northern Thailand, you have to fly here, and I wasn't sure there was enough to do or see to make it worth a few days of our time. But my friend thought it was. She pointed out that the best cooking schools were here, not Bangkok. Plus you can do an elephant trek and hike into the mountains to see tribal communities. Ok, I'm convinced. You had me at 'elephant'.

Ko Phi Phi - This is really the main reason for our trip. The beach! And where better to find one (or six) than some of the most beautiful islands in the world? It also has some amazing SCUBA diving, snorkeling, and kayaking. And while considered "expensive" by Thai standards, you can still find bungalows on the beach for under $75/night for two people. This will probably be the most expensive part of our vacation, but also the most relaxing. We've definitely planned plenty of 'lie on the beach and do nothing' time. I can't wait!

It finally seems real. We're actually going. We haven't bought airfare yet, it's still 8 months away. But at this stage of planning, with guidebooks purchased and an itinerary mapped out, it's highly unlikely we'll change our minds. It's going to be an awesome trip. I'll probably take 3000 photos. I promise to post a few!

See All The Places!

Sometimes traveling overwhelms me. Not because of everything there is to do and see, or the money spent, or the time off required. Not even because of the planning most trips need (that's one of my favorite parts!). No. I get overwhelmed because I feel this desperate need to travel everywhere right now! I don't know why it is that I feel this way. The countries will still be there next year or five or ten years from now. Nevertheless, I found myself nearly hyperventilating at work the other day, thinking about all the places I want to go NOW.

It started with an email from TripAdvisor with a list of the Top 25 Landmarks - World, as voted on by users of the site. You can find the list here. I forwarded it the person I'm going to Thailand and Cambodia with, as we are hoping to go to both Cambodia locations. She responded by pointing out Petra in Jordan, a place I've wanted to see for many years! In turn, I reminded her that we still have a trip to Peru and Machu Picchu planned. From here, it continued to escalate.

Going through it again, I counted seven places I had been to. Seven. And only two in the top ten! This simply would not do! Granted, if all goes as planned with the trips I'm already hoping to take over the next year, I will add three more, but this just isn't good enough! On top of that, I have a friend who lives in Australia and might be moving to the States. I need to visit her before she leaves! Then there's Kilimanjaro in Tanzania. I need to climb that while I'm still young enough (ha!) and fit enough (double ha!) to do it! And Croatia! Before deciding on Morocco in 2009, the original plan was to go to Croatia, Slovenia, Bosnia and Montenegro, but it got too expensive. Pretty sure it's not getting any cheaper!

This led me to create a list of the places I need to go to immediately, a list of places I need to go to soon, and a list of places I've already been but really want to go back to. The outcome of all this was 16 trips, 23 countries and a heart attack. How on earth will I fit it all in?! But I must fit it all in! It was just too much for me to take. I needed a break.

After a quick nap in the lobby downstairs (yes, I nap in the lobby sometimes) I felt calmer. I still wasn't sure how I'd be able to do every trip I wanted to do, and it's possible I won't get to do them soon, but I have so many trips coming up over the next year that there is no need to focus on anything else. I'm incredibly lucky to get to travel as much as I do and for now, I'm going to concentrate on that.

But a little Googling never hurt anyone...